Being a short guy dating
Though the paper didn't delve into why this disparity exists, I think we might be able to chalk it up to empathy.
Short men have been considered "less than" by a culture that still equates height with masculinity, and this has opened their eyes to what a crock traditional gender roles can be.
To which I can only reply: dude, have you ever actually been ravished?
It has nothing to do with height, unless your main sexual fetish is being carried back and forth across a room, over and over again.
Listen, what turns you on is what turns you on, and if you can really only get a wide-on for dudes over six feet, that's a-okay.
Trying to reconcile height disparities while boning involved a lot of crouching on unstable structures made out of stacked pillows and crawling around on tables, trying to use my D in high school Geometry to make all the angles line up. It turned out that he loved me in heels — and also, he had made his peace with his height and his body, and didn't need me to change the way I dressed or the things I liked to make him feel more like a man.
With a short dude, there's no problem — all your parts align, and you're free to get creative, instead of spending all your time just trying to get your genitals on the same visual plane. Short guys know they are short, and very few of them will demand that you make concessions about it (the ones who do are jerks, obvi).
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Many years ago, before I fell in love with a short guy, I was one of the many American women who only had eyes for the tall ones.