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" And she said, "Well, I saw you speak, and I'm going to call you a researcher, I think, but I'm afraid if I call you a researcher, no one will come, because they'll think you're boring and irrelevant." And I was like, "Okay." And she said, "But the thing I liked about your talk is you're a storyteller. Well, you know that situation where you get an evaluation from your boss, and she tells you 37 things that you do really awesome, and one "opportunity for growth?
So I think what I'll do is just call you a storyteller." And of course, the academic, insecure part of me was like, "You're going to call me a what? " And all you can think about is that opportunity for growth, right?
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" And she said, "I'm going to call you a storyteller." And I was like, "Why not 'magic pixie'? Well, apparently this is the way my work went as well, because, when you ask people about love, they tell you about heartbreak.
" I was like, "Let me think about this for a second." I tried to call deep on my courage. When you ask people about belonging, they'll tell you their most excruciating experiences of being excluded.
And when you ask people about connection, the stories they told me were about disconnection.
So I had a manila folder, and I had a Sharpie, and I was like, what am I going to call this research?
And the first words that came to my mind were "whole-hearted." These are whole-hearted people, living from this deep sense of worthiness. And I want to separate courage and bravery for you for a minute.
They had the compassion to be kind to themselves first and then to others, because, as it turns out, we can't practice compassion with other people if we can't treat ourselves kindly.
And the last was they had connection, and — this was the hard part — as a result of authenticity, they were willing to let go of who they thought they should be in order to be who they were, which you have to absolutely do that for connection. If there's anyone who wants their life to look like this, it would be me, but it doesn't work. They're hardwired for struggle when they get here.